How do I Talk With My Parent(s) About Birth Control?
Who really wants to talk to their parents about sex? But, when it comes to emotional support and guidance sometimes it’s a must. And, if you’re on your parent’s insurance and you use it to get birth control, it’s better to have an informed conversation now, than an awkward explanation later about why birth control is suddenly being billed to their plan.
Are You on Your Parent’s Health Insurance?
If you are on your parent’s policy and you are worried about how they will react when they notice birth control is being billed to their health insurance, you are not alone. Let them know you are taking care of your health by having your annual pelvic exam. Remind them that birth control is another way for you to protect your future and your health.
And remember, if you prefer not to use your parent’s insurance for your birth control needs, you might have other options available to you. Check with your local clinic about options for low- or no-cost birth control.
How to Say, “Mom, Dad, I’m Having Sex.”
Before you begin this conversation, it doesn’t hurt to do a little research of your own. Encourage your parents to listen to you, not lecture you. And remember, sometimes it can be just as uncomfortable for them as it is for you. The hardest part is getting the conversation started; here are some tips:
- Look to the headlines: Have you seen or heard a story in the news or on film (fact or fiction) that might help you start the conversation? “Did you see that story about male birth control pills?”
- Use others as examples: Is there someone you know that you can use as an example? “This woman at my work got pregnant, but she said she hadn’t been planning it.”
- Start the conversation around the fact that you want to be healthy and responsible and start with health topics you feel more comfortable with like drinking, smoking, or getting regular checkups at the health care provider.
They Just Don’t Get It
You’ve tried talking to your parents, but when it comes to talking about sex, they just won’t listen or can’t get over the embarrassment and discomfort of talking about sex and birth control. Now what? The most important thing is that you protect yourself. If you are having sex, you might have other options available to you for birth control without having to rely on your parent’s health insurance. Find a clinic near you and check into low- or no-cost birth control options and STI testing. If you’re ever on the fence, just remember this old Stork saying that goes, “Condoms are easier to get on than diapers.”
